The Emotional Healing Process
We have made a revolutionary discovery: Any properly contexted online-or-offline Circle of people can make it their custom that at any time, any member of the Circle can call upon any two other members to Hold and Navigate an Emotional Healing Process for them.
Establishing your Circle as a mutual collaboration Team for Emotional Healing Processes works, regardless of whether your Circle is a Study Group, S.P.A.R.K. Experiment Circle, Research Team, Possibility Team, Whole Permaculture Team, Rage Club, Fear Club, 3 Cell, Safe Circle, Riftwalker Team, Edgeworker Team, Growness Team, Trainer Path Team, New Refugees Circle, Village Seeds Circle, Earth Guardians Circle, Village Weavers Circle, Evolutionaries Circle, Gameworld Builders Circle, Possibility Coaches Circle, Possibility Mediators Circle, Possibility Psychologists Circle, Memetic Engineers Circle, Magus Training Circle, etc. )
The purpose of this website is to support YOU to stand in the Authority to establish the custom in your Circles to ongoingly exchange Emotional Healing Processes with each other. We have found that valuable sustainable changes truly happen by creatively collaborating in a consistent series of baby-step Emotional Healing Processes. You can do this!
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An 'Emotional Healing Process' is: 'A facilitated Transformational-change experience that has a start, a middle, and an end'.
A typical Emotional Healing Process will require from 30 to 120 minutes start to finish.
The prerequisite for successful results in Emotional Healing Process is some degree of awareness and competence with Inner Navigation skills, in other words, being able to Consciously Feel.
Almost always a Process will involve experiencing and expressing Feelings and/or Emotions because in Possibility Management we have observed that if there is no Liquid State (an any of your 5 Bodies) then there is no change.
For this reason we highly recommend participating in at least one Expand The Box training,
and 10 or more Possibility Labs.
Further along your evolutionary Path, certain deep Healing, Transformation, or Authentic Adulthood Initiatory Processes may put you in Liquid States for a few weeks or a couple of months while things reorder themselves. This is how it goes.
Eventually you spend more time in Groundless States than in Solid States
and you experientially discover that human beings are designed to fly.
Possibility Management Emotional Healing Processes are not Cathartic. They are Cathectic.
This means that rather than using the Old Thoughtmap of Feelings and 'trying to get rid of those bad or negative feelings' (catharsis), we apply a New Thoughtmap of Feelings and consciously use the intelligence and energy of Feelings and Emotions for healings, initiations, and the evolution of Consciousness (cathexis).
From your first Possibility Lab onward, you experience and are trained in:
Since everything is always in flux, living is Process.
Not that it matters, but the Western Baul teacher Lee Lozowick called it: "The great Process of divine evolution."
Hints for Holding and Navigating Emotional Healing Process Spaces
Healing, Initiation, and Transformation are, by nature, both nonlinear and unreasonable. This means that a Possibilitator needs skills for creating and navigating unreasonable nonlinear spaces. Such skills are not taught in mainstream culture. Learning these skills requires that you take Radical Responsibility for shifting your Point Of Origin out of mainstream culture and planting it into next culture, where emotional healing skills are as central and widespread as using a smart phone is in mainstream culture.
Whether you are the Client going through the Emotional Healing Process, or the Possibilitator, who is Holding and Navigating Space for someone else to go through an Emotional Healing Process, you cannot know how the process will go.
If you know how how a process goes, then it is teaching, not healing... and you are a teacher, not a Possibilitator.
In Emotional Healing Processes, the Possibilitator is always at risk of Transformation.
This requires being Centered, Grounded, Bubbled,
Present, Attentive, Radically Responsible, and resourcefully not knowing.
A Possibilitator Holds and Navigates an 'Emergent Space', that is, a Space - the qualities, necessities, and gifts of which - emerge unpredictably as you go along.
Emergent Spaces are evolutionary and can therefore be used for Emotional Healing Processes and Authentic Adulthood Initiations.
No to two Emergent Spaces are the same.
This means a Possibilitator needs to befriend and discover each Space as it emerges and evolves, no matter if the Space is in the Upperworld, the Middleworld, or the Underworld.
A Possibilitator needs to Hold and Navigate Spaces in all 3 Worlds.
For this it is crucial to have an alert and initiated Gremlin serving you on a short leash at your side.
No Emergent Space remains the same from moment to moment.
This means a Possibilitator would be wise to do their own Emotional Healing Processes that drop their own 'emotional baggage' to the point where they are 'massless' (Unhookable) enough to make right-angle turns at light-speed.
Possibility Management Emotional Healing Processes are 3 Phase Healing.
To be clear, Possibility Management is not a method.
Neither is it primarily Emotional Healing Process Work.
Possibility Management is a growing cloud of copyleft, open-code distinctions, tools, thoughtware, and processes constantly emerging from the context of Radical Responsibility, useful for originating Possibility when there is not enough, and banishing Possibility when there is too much.
Possibility is a Bright Principle, and one of the most valuable qualities in the Universe. It cannot be monetized, trademarked, or franchised. Possibility is a treasure that grows by giving it away.
There is need of thousands more skilled Possibilitators in every language, culture, and domain to help facilitate the massive personal, organizational, and cultural shifts happening around the world right now. Perhaps this is your calling. If so, it is not too late to Start Over.
Below here are a few hints about what an Emotional Healing Process is... and what it is not...
Necessity Creates the Healing
Or, the answer to: "How can I hold space when I do not have the knowledge of a Trainer?"
When you are a Spaceholder for somebody else's Emotional Healing Process, it is NOT about you. It is not about how well (or not well) you think you are trained, how smart (or stupid) you think you are, how beautiful (or ugly) you think you look, how many distinctions you think you have (or don't have), or how well (or not) you think you can Navigate Space.
When you Hold Space for somebody else's process, it is about the other person's necessity to heal.
Let their necessity lead the process.
If you do not let what they actually need and can sustainably hold in their Matrix lead, then you are trying to force them to heal, manipulate them to heal, or rescue them, which is all Low Drama, driven by your hungry Gremlin. It is not an Emotional Healing Process. Trying to force your Client to heal or transform is not respectful of the person.
Instead, Be With your Client where they are, not where you expect them to be, hope them to be, want them to be, wish them to be, or think that they ought to be.
The Client's authentic Necessity calls in the appropriate intelligence needed to open a healing transformation Space for them, and the Clarity for which actions and distinctions are required to get there. It is all there within one arm's reach.
You are the Spaceholder. You Hold and Navigate Space. Use what is given. That's your job.
The Client goes through the process. It is not your job to go through the process for them.
You cannot go through the process for your Client. Trying to go through the process for your Client creates confusion and frustration for both the Possibilitator and the Client.
You navigate the space of healing in proportion to your Matrix and your Client's Matrix. And that is good enough. Good enough is good enough. Perfectionism is a disease from Modern Culture. Please go through the Emotional Healing Process to heal yourself from it.
The great news is that the people asking you to hold space for them have scanned you and they already 'know' (at an energetic level) that you can provide value for them. Otherwise they would go ask somebody else.
Here are further hints:
Healing Happens In Connection
A Healing or Transformation Space needs to be simultaneously ultra-safe and ultra-dangerous.
The 'safety' comes from the Radical Clarity of the Context of the Space, which Clarity is available to everyone in the Space.
The 'dangerousness' comes from the Unhookability of the Possibilitator. The Possibilitator's Integrity, Unseducibility, utter lack of Power Struggles, Competition, Win-Lose games, Low Drama, superiority, protectionism, arrogance, manipulation, invulnerability, etc. sets the example.
Healing Is NOT Understanding
An Emotional Healing Process is NOT psychoanalysis.
Psychoanalysis has the intention of understanding why a person is the way they are. Understanding happens in the intellectual body, providing very little and very linear Possibility for Healing because emotions are not in the intellectual body. Emotions are in the emotional body!
Understanding can only take someone so far. Any Client talking to you has probably reached the limits of what understanding can do for them. This is why most of your early Single Coaching sessions with a Client will be about learning Inner Navigation, how to differentiate thoughts from feelings, how to distinguish feelings from emotions, how to tell the difference between anger, sadness, fear and joy, and how to Unmixing their Emotions.
Your Client's Box and Gremlin may try over-and-over again to bring them into the domain of intellectualizing. As the Spaceholder, your job will be to keep your Sword of Clarity at their neck and navigate your Client back to the domain of feelings and emotions where Healing and Transformation can actually happen.
If Healing is NOT understanding, then what is it?
Healing is taking on a new shape which the illness or dis-ease can no longer grip.
With a new shape, your Client can then create and experience new results in their Life.
Healing and Transformation chisels new space inside and outside of a Client for them to let go of their identification with Being Wounded, and shift to the identity of Being an Experimenter.
Healing Is NOT Catharsis
An emotional healing process is NOT catharsis. Catharsis is blowing out, releasing the energy of feelings and emotions, so that they seems gone, out of our body. Catharsis provides no transformation, simply a release. In no less than one hour, the feelings and emotions will have built up back again in your 5-bodies.
Transforming alchemically emotions in Processes for growing up and healing is 'cathectic' rather than 'cathartic'. Cathexis is the process of containing, recycling, re-aiming, and consciously using Emotional Energies, in comparison with Catharsis, which is the process of expressing, expelling, trying to use up and get rid of supposedly negative, excess, or useless
The instructions for Cathexis are, "Hold the energy in. Do not allow your Gremlin to throw it away. Let the energy circulate around in all 5 of your Bodies. Build the Matrix to run this much energy through your Bodies."
What we have found is that Feelings and Emotions are not design errors from Gaia, but rather are precious resources of energy and information needed for fulfilling your Destiny and delivering the services of your Archetypal Lineage to the Village.
Specifically: Feelings are for handling things. Emotions are for healing things.
Through Cathectic Processes you can learn Inner Navigating as part Conscious Feelings.
Then your Emotional Energy can be directed towards healing, Building Matrix, Authentic Adulthood Initiations, and Archetypal Transformations.
Healing Is NOT a Gremlin Feeding Space
An emotional healing process is NOT a Gremlin feeding space.
Therefore, it is not a Low Drama space.
As Possibilitator your Sword Of Clarity is always to hand and directed at the Client's throat to cause Disillusionment. This is the kind of Radically Responsible compassion that does not allow sloppiness of context. You maintain the extraordinary spaces using your Bullshit Detector to detect the actions of their Survival Strategy and the various Parts of their personality that are actually killing them.
Your initiated Gremlin sits attentively at your left side (or the opposite side from your Sword hand) and you have already given him or her the assignment to detect the Client's Gremlin and inform you what it is up to.
Your own Gremlin is your main agent of Underworld Clarity about Hidden Competing Commitments, Hidden Purposes, and Shadow Principles.
Healing Is NOT Positive Thinking
An emotional healing process is NOT positive thinking.
Positive Thinking is a strategy of asserting that some beneficial condition is so when it is not so, assuming that your fantasy world will somehow stack-the-cards in favor of your wish coming true is you can believe it long enough and hard enough.
Positive Thinking is a formula for self-deception. Telling yourself over and over that something is true when it is not true takes you farther away from reality rather than bringing you closer to reality.
A Possibilitator realizes that the closer you are bonded into reality, the more your actions automatically change the shape of the Universe.
Keeping close contact with reality requires authentic Integrity, directed Attention, conscious Will, and the self-discipline developed during ruthlessly honest Self Observation, a life of learning, and a life of practice on a Team where Feedback and Coaching are a central part of your Team Context.
About The Concept Of 'Re-Traumatizing'
Some of your Clients might have fear of Feelings Work because they have adopted a meme that makes them afraid of 'being Re-Traumatized'.
Let us think for a moment about what the term 'being Re-Traumatized' might mean.
Most uninitiated human beings live in a condensed cloud of Incomplete Emotions that use up their energy to suppress and manage. Incomplete Emotions are food for Prejudices, Beliefs, Story Worlds, Assumptions, Conclusions, Expectations, Judgements, Projections, Voices in the mind, and Positionality that affect the quality of one's daily life. In severe incidents, Clients may have had experiences that were so shocking as to cause the above symptoms to the degree that they are diagnosed by the psychological community as so-called Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD).
Please read this Mayo Clinic article about PTSD:
Please read this Wikipedia entry about PTSD:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Post-traumatic_stress_disorder
Notice that in NEITHER information source is it indicated that treatments for PTSD include Distinguishing Feelings and Emotions or Unmixing Emotions or Upgrading Thoughtware About Feelings and Emotions or Emotional Healing Processes or Completing Incomplete Emotions. Modern culture understanding about Feelings and Emotions still originates in the Old Thoughtmap of Feelings.
The concept of 'being Re-Traumatized' can only make sense from the viewpoint of the Old Thoughtmap of Feelings, where feelings and emotions are regarded as 'bad' and are to be avoided.
Neither modern-culture therapists nor modern-culture Clients have upgraded their Standard Human Intelligence Thoughtware with regards to feelings and emotions. From the perspective of the Old Thoughtmap of Feelings, if a treatment for PTSD involves feeling anything, especially to feel an incomplete Emotion - since there is no way to distinguish whether the Client (or therapist) has upgraded their Inner Navigation skills - then the idea of feeling Emotions has the potential to unleash Emotional fears in brain-centered therapists.
Emotional Healing Processes using the Radical Responsibility context of Possibility Management originate in an entirely different framework and have an entirely different effectiveness from the processes of modern-culture's Freudian / Jungian psychotherapeutic context. There is no simple way to compare these two contexts.
What can be said is that after 45 years of Possibility Management's Emotional Healing Process work around the world, the concept of 're-traumatizing' makes no sense and has no basis in our experience.
On the New Thoughtmap of Feelings, when a person consciously feels and applies the intelligence and energy of both Feelings and Emotions in their daily life, this is a sign that they are becoming more Centered, more Present, more Adult, taking back Authority, and coming back to life.
In Possibility Management, Feelings are for handling things. Emotions are for healing things.
Process Beginning
For The Client: Your Request For An Emotional Healing Process
If you arrange for someone to Hold Space for you to express huge Low Drama Emotions, nothing will change.
Merely expressing repressed, suppressed, or mixed Emotions is called 'catharsis' - trying to get rid of these bothersome ('bad') emotions.
Doing catharsis wastes the Doorway created by the opportunity of your emotional Reactivity.
Instead of intending to express huge Low Drama Emotions, change your request. Ask for a couple of people to Hold and Navigate the Space of an Emotional Healing Process for you!
Then they will Navigate the intelligence and energy of your Emotions for 'cathexis' - which is to use Emotional intelligence for Transformation.
Ask for an Emotional Healing Process:
For The Possibilitator: Setting Up And Beginning The Process
Here are 3 STEPS to set up a safely-dangerous space for your Client to go through their Process.
NOTE: These 3 STEPS are the same whether you are working offline and in person in your house or office with your Client, or working online with a Client and a Coach who are spread anywhere in the world.
REVOLUTIONARY BREAKTHROUGH: It is a revolutionary discovery that any Circle of people (such as ) can make it their custom that at any time, any member can call upon any two other members to Hold and Navigate an Emotional Healing Process for them. The purpose of this website is to support you to have the courage to do this with each other in your Circles. Valuable sustainable change truly happens in a consistent series of baby-step Emotional Healing Processes as creative Collaboration.
STEP 1. Before the Process starts, go to First Position. Make sure that you - as the Spaceholder - have your Center, Grounding Cord , and Personal Bubble of Space. Use your Possibility Stone to Minimize your NOW, and to Shift Your Identity to: "I am a Possibilitator." (... or Experimenter, or Riftwalker, or Edgeworker, or 3 Phase Healer, or Possibility Coach, or Possibility Mediator, or Possibility Psychologist, or Memetic Engineer, or Transformational Circle Alchemist, or Feelings Practitioner, or Possibility Trainer). Make sure your Possibilitator Toolbelt with your 13 Energetic Tools is strapped firmly to your waist, that your Gremlin is sitting attentively at your left side ready to inform you about your Client's Gremlin, and your Sword Of Clarity is in your right hand pointed at the throat of your Client to distinguish if their offers are Fair or Unfair (their offers will be Unfair...). Make an energetic connection from your Being through your Box, through their Box, into their Being. This is a Being-to-Being connection. For healing to happen, you need to find some way to Love your Client. Have your Purpose Sniffer activated, your Low Drama Detector turned on, and your Feelings Detector at the ready.
STEP 2. Click your Clicker one more time and Declare into existence your energetic Work Space - a golden cube that embraces both you and your Client (even if they are located on the other side of the Earth during an online coaching). Call your Bright Principles one-by-one into your work space (by saying them out loud or in your head and bringing them in with your Conscious Will). If you haven't distilled your Bright Principles yet, you can call in the Bright Principles of Possibility Management, which are: Love, Possibility, Clarity and Healing - for example. It can be perfect to tell your Client which Bright Principles you have called into this Process Space.
STEP 3. Ask the magic question: "What can I do for you?" then become an empty space of Listening. This question knocks on the door of their authentic Necessity. Stay in attentive connection with the necessity of their Being during the whole process.
Process Middle
The point of Emotional Process Work is not to 'empty the garbage can'.
The garbage can is bottomless - it is the Underworld. It can never be emptied.
We are not doing 'dumpster diving'.
This is not 'excavating'.
The point of Emotional Process Work is to free up the next layer of energy and attention for the Client's adulthood Presence.
The Possibilitator Holds Space for the Client to follow their Emotions back to their source in order to find the Treasure that is hidden there.
There are two main things you will be doing during an Emotional Healing Process:
Navigate to the 'Liquid State'
Transformation and Healing (which here, I consider them similar) happens only if there is a Liquid State. Even with a Liquid State, it is not guaranteed that Healing will take place. And without Liquid State, it is guaranteed that no Healing will take place.
When you Client enters a Liquid State, they will feel something: Anger, Sadness, Fear or Joy or a Mixed Emotions. Navigates towards feelings and emotions. This requires that you (and ideally your Client) are on the New Map of Feelings where feelings are a neutral source of information and energy and where Feelings are different from Emotions.
Feelings are for handling things. Emotions are for healing things.
Most of what your Client will feel are Emotions - which is a great news because they are the Doorways for healing!
If your Client is not familiar with the Map of 4 Feelings (and the Old and New Map of Feelings), then your Emotional Healing Process starts there.
Give them clarity and experiences to upgrade their thoughtware.
Then let them know that this Emotional Healing Process depends on them actually feel something. There are 4 Feelings: Anger, Sadness, Fear and Joy; and there are Mixed Emotions: Revenge, Shame, Guilt, Resentment, Jealousy, ...
Give their Feelings and Emotions a Space of extraordinary Clarity in which to be expressed and to be heard. Demonstrate how to excellently respect, listen to, and apply their Feelings and Emotions.
Use the 'Golden Keys'
Your Client will provide you all the Golden Keys you need to navigate the process, you don't have to come up with them. Golden Keys are the way out of the prison of their emotions. Your Client have locked themselves up in a prison of which the bars are made of their Stories entangled with their Emotions.
Your job is to pay attention for Golden Key and use them. Their two main ways to use Golden Keys: one is by using a Completion Loop, completing the communication, the other is to ask question to navigate to the source of the prison.
Example 1:
Client: "It is not okay for me to be angry".
That's a major Golden Key. They just revealed to you that they are stuck in a prison of not being able to feel angry, which means that over their lives, they have let themselves be abused, their boundaries be crossed, they cannot say what they want or don't want, they cannot be themselves, etc..
Spaceholder: "It is not okay for you to be angry." (Using the Golden Key with a Completion Loop).
Client: "Yes."
Spaceholder: "It is not okay for you to be angry because...?"
Use Nonlinear Possibilities
In the context of Possibility Management, Healing is not an end in itself. Healing is an essential component of the path of creating and managing more and more Possibility.
Healing is not the only component of that path, Adulthood and Archetypal Initiatory Processes are another; as well as Being An Experimenter, a Life of Practice, a Life of Learning, and many more dimensions.
Emotional healing processes in the context of Possibility Management are Possibility Making Processes. You can start the process by asking: 'What can I do for you?' or 'What Possibility do your need today?' These are High-Drama offers.
Archearchal Shamanism
In indigenous cultures, healing and initiatory processes were traditionally delivered by the village shamans and the village initiators.
Modern culture long ago forbade authentic adulthood initiatory processes, and moved healing into the jurisdiction of university-trained medical doctors and pharmaceutical corporations.
In next cultures - that is, archearchal cultures - healing and initiation have had to re-originate themselves to emerge out of the context of radical responsibility and the context of archetypally initiated adult women creatively collaborating with archetypally initiated adult men.
This is absolutely NOT a throwback to the healing and initiations as contexted in indigenous cultures. This is a leap into new cultural territory that has never before existed on planet Earth. We can be very clear about this.
In indigenous healing, the great shaman comes to town, does his shamanic thing on the patients, and then leaves. The patient gives his or her authority over to the shaman, hoping to be returned to health.
In archearchal healing, the Client calls upon the Possibilitator or the Feelings Practitioner and begins their 3 Phase Healing journey. The Possibilitator creates and navigates an extraordinary space in which they empower the Client to take back enough Authority do the healing process on themselves. Afterwards, the Client often has increased their Possibilitator skills enough that they can then provide the same healing process for other Clients. The Possibilitator has the intention to Replace Themselves, that is, to empower as many new Possibilitators as possible. Archearchy is built out of circular gameworlds where resources are abundant and there is always more room for taking responsibility at the center.
In indigenous initiation, the initiators extract the initiate's Point Of Origin (or 'assemblage point' in Carlos Castaneda terminology) from the context of their mother and anchored into the traditions and ancestors of the village culture. This way the newly initiated 'adult' already knows how to plant the crops, weave the cloth, cook the food, build the house, sing the songs, give birth, and die. The initiate gives their authority to the traditions of the village culture. Such initiations function when the culture is noble and environmental conditions are stable. Neither of these is true in the 21st Century.
In archearchal initiation, the initiators empower each initiate to extract their own Point Of Origin from the context of their mother and father, and anchor it into their own center thus being radically responsible for creating their own lives.
Removing Blocks Is Banishment
Reconnecting to Inner and Outer Resources Is Retrieval
Other Self Surgeries
Process Ending - The Wrap-Up
New Distinctions
New Decisions
For example, let's say your Client discovered by following their emotions back to their source that they have been carrying an old decision they made when they were three to five 5 years old such as: "I cannot trust others because they will betray me."
One Healing Possibility is to offer your Client to make a new decision.
You might have the idea to offer to your client to make a new decision, such as, "I trust others."
From our experience, we've notice that making an opposite new decision does not work.
It does not work because it is too linear to counteract the old decision and only lands in the mind as a concept that can easily be forgotten. The Box and Survival Strategy is too strong and defended to be changed with positive thinking. Positive thinking is linear. Positive thinking happens in the mind.
Effective new decisions are non-linear and land in all 5-bodies.
A workable New Decision for the Old Decision example above could be: "I trust MYSELF to take care of myself around other people."
New Practices
New Experiments
Shift Identity.
Give it a name.
Pirate Agreements
Suggestions For The Client For Re-Entering Their Lives
To prepare your Client to shift Space out of your extraordinarily safe and clear Process Space to return to the unknown context of the Space of their ordinary lives, recommend that your Client create a re-entry buffer zone in time and space and context-shift for themselves. These details can help:
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Emotional Healing Process Experiments
The point of doing the following Experiments (not just thinking about doing these Experiments)
is that they build out new Matrix in your Being for being a Process Spaceholder,
while at the same time providing you with rich 'energetic food',
plus new Trainer Skills for serving your Clients,
plus High Level Fun!
Adult Listening
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Modern culture has not place for listening. Look at people sitting at cafés and restaurants, or on the bus, most people are talking at the same time. If everyone is talking, who is listening?
We've been used to receive and deliver the 12 roadblocks and normal neurotic listening.
Creating and holding a space of Adult Listening for another human being with your complete attention available to them can already be such a deep healing for your Client.
WARNING: as mentioned above, emotional healing processes are not a space for Gremlin activities. Therefore, being a space of listening does not mean being available for Gremlin complaining, gossiping, triangulating, and so on... If you suspect that their Gremlin are trying to use you for Being Right, or Making Someone Wrong, or Resentment, or Revenge.
Hints that you are listening to a Gremlin:
- Your Client is not using feelings in their communication. To shift the space, ask them to say at the beginning of each sentence: 'I feel angry/sad/scared/glad about... because...'.
- Your Client is not crystal clear about who is speaking right now. To shift the space, ask them the simple question: 'Which 'I' is saying this? Please be clear, instead of using 'I', say 'my Gremlin needs this... my Gremlin thinks this...'
Inner Navigating Anger-Sadness-Fear-Joy
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Distinguishing Low Drama
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Unmixing Mixed Emotions
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Follow Back The Emotions To Their Source
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As the Possibility Pirates say, "That's where the Treasure be!"
Old Decisions / New Decisions
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A Decision is a Commitment to a new worldview.
A Decision happens in all 5 Bodies simultaneously, not in the mind.
A New Decision changes who you are because it changes your contract with the Universe, which changes the shape of your Being.
After your New Decision you are the person who has the shape of someone committed to this new contract.
Navigate To New Levels With Completion Loops
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Hold and Enter Nonlinear Spaces
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Go Unreasonable
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Be With Your Client
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5 Offers For Intimacy
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Make Use Of The 9 Gaps
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Never Put Away Your Sword Of Clarity
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Identify And Name Survival Strategies
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Identify And Name The 18 Boxes
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Deepen Your Skills For Holding Space
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Deepen Your Skills For Navigating Space
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Explore Being A Possibility Coach
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Explore Being A Possibility Mediator
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Explore Being A Possibility Psychologist
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Expand Your Memetic Engineering Skills
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Explore Being A Feelings Practitioner
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Activate And Use Your Purpose Sniffer
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Dive Into Thoroughly Mapping Out Reactivity
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Dive Into Thoroughly Mapping Ego States
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Decontaminate Your Adult Ego State
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Decontaminate your Adult Ego State from your Child Ego State.
Decontaminate your Adult Ego State from your Parent Ego State.
Decontaminate your Adult Ego State from your Gremlin Ego State.
Stabilize in the Adult Ego State to enter the Extraordinary and Archetypal Domains of relationship and Possibility.
Do Your 11 Floor Processes
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There are 11 Floor Processes that you can deliver in your online-or-offline Single Coaching sessions... after you have done them yourself.
Distill Your Bright Principles
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Ongoingly Detect Hidden Competing Commitments
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Sew Up Your Brain Splits
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Expand Your Conscious Declaring Skills
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Identify Name and Integrate Your Parts
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There is a Zoo in there...
Enter A Process Facilitator's Life Of Practice
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Practice Disidentification
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Deliver Disillusionment
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Replace Yourself as the Possibilitator
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List of 51+ Core Initiatory Process
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