Healing, Initiation, and Transformation are, by nature, both nonlinear and unreasonable. This means that a Possibilitator needs skills for creating and navigating unreasonable nonlinear spaces. Such skills are not taught in mainstream culture. Learning these skills requires that you take Radical Responsibility for shifting your Point Of Origin out of mainstream culture and planting it into next culture, where emotional healing skills are as central and widespread as using a smart phone is in mainstream culture.
Whether you are the Client going through the Emotional Healing Process, or the Possibilitator, who is Holding and Navigating Space for someone else to go through an Emotional Healing Process, you cannot know how the process will go.
If you know how how a process goes, then it is teaching, not healing... and you are a teacher, not a Possibilitator.
In Emotional Healing Processes, the Possibilitator is always at risk of Transformation.
This requires being Centered, Grounded, Bubbled, Present, Attentive, Radically Responsible, and resourcefully not knowing.
To be clear, Possibility Management is not a method.
Neither is it primarily Emotional Healing Process Work.
Possibility Management is a growing cloud of copyleft, open-code distinctions, tools, thoughtware, and processes constantly emerging from the context of Radical Responsibility, useful for originating Possibility when there is not enough, and banishing Possibility when there is too much.
Possibility is a Bright Principle, and one of the most valuable qualities in the Universe. It cannot be monetized, trademarked, or franchised. Possibility is a treasure that grows by giving it away.
There is need of thousands more skilled Possibilitators in every language, culture, and domain to help facilitate the massive personal, organizational, and cultural shifts happening around the world right now as humanity departs from the capitalist patriarchal empire in the same way a butterfly departs from a cocoon, and invents and inhabits next culture: archearchy.
Archearchy is the culture of archetypally initiated adult women creative collaborating with archetypally initiated adult men - the culture that naturally emerges after matriarchy and patriarchy have run their course.
Perhaps facilitating Emotional Healing Processes as a bridge to archearchy is your calling. If so, it is not too late to Start Over.
Below are a few hints about what an Emotional Healing Process is... and what it is not...